Judging others is something we all fall into at times, but Scripture calls us to a higher standard , one of grace, humility, and self-reflection. The Bible teaches that while discernment is important, condemnation and a critical spirit can damage relationships and distance us from God's love.
If you or someone you know struggles with being judgmental, these verses offer guidance, correction, and encouragement to walk in love and humility.
1. Do Not Judge or You Will Be Judged: Matthew 7:1
"Do not judge, or you too will be judged."
This is one of the most well-known teachings of Jesus on the topic of judgment. It serves as a clear warning that the same standard we use to judge others will be applied to us. It urges us to look inward before casting criticism outward and reminds us that only God has the ultimate authority to judge. When we resist being judgmental, we mirror God's mercy and grace in our own actions.
2. Look at the Plank in Your Own Eye: Matthew 7:3
"Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?"
This verse calls out hypocrisy in the most vivid way. It challenges us to examine ourselves before pointing out others’ faults. When we focus too much on the shortcomings of others, we often overlook our own need for growth and repentance. Jesus is teaching us to approach others with humility, acknowledging our own imperfections.
3. Judging Others Condemns Yourself: Romans 2:1
"You, therefore, have no excuse, you who pass judgment on someone else, for at whatever point you judge another, you are condemning yourself, because you who pass judgment do the same things."
Paul's message here is direct and convicting. He reminds us that being judgmental not only lacks compassion but also reveals our own guilt. We are all flawed and in need of grace. Instead of criticizing, we are called to build one another up and seek transformation through God’s mercy.
4. Judge with Righteous Judgment: John 7:24
"Do not judge by appearances, but judge with right judgment."
Jesus is not condemning all judgment, but rather teaching us to be discerning and fair. We are often quick to judge based on superficial things , what someone looks like, how they act, or what they say. This verse reminds us to seek wisdom and spiritual discernment rather than snap decisions rooted in bias or pride.
5. Mercy Triumphs Over Judgment: James 2:13
"Because judgment without mercy will be shown to anyone who has not been merciful. Mercy triumphs over judgment."
James gives a powerful reminder that mercy is greater than judgment. If we want to receive mercy, we must be willing to extend it. When we act with compassion rather than condemnation, we reflect the heart of God and create space for healing and redemption.
6. The Lord Sees the Heart: 1 Samuel 16:7
"The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart."
This verse emphasizes that our judgments are often based on shallow perceptions. God, however, sees beyond the surface into the intentions and character of a person. It’s a reminder that our limited understanding should lead us to humility rather than harsh opinions.
7. Restore Gently, Not Harshly: Galatians 6:1
"Brothers and sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently. But watch yourselves, or you also may be tempted."
This verse offers a model for how to respond when others fall short. It doesn’t say to ignore sin, but rather to correct with gentleness. It also calls us to self-awareness , recognizing our own vulnerability to temptation. True correction comes from love, not condemnation.
8. God Alone is the Judge: James 4:12
"There is only one Lawgiver and Judge, the one who is able to save and destroy. But you, who are you to judge your neighbor?"
James drives home the point that judging others steps into a role that belongs only to God. When we judge, we forget our own need for grace. This verse helps us step back and remember that God sees the full picture, and our job is to love, not condemn.
9. Speak with Grace, Not Criticism: Ephesians 4:29
"Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen."
Words are powerful, and when they’re used to tear others down, they become tools of judgment. Paul urges believers to speak life and encouragement instead. By choosing grace-filled speech, we cultivate kindness and resist a judgmental spirit.
10. Practice Forgiveness, Not Fault-Finding: Colossians 3:13
"Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you."
Forgiveness and judgment can’t coexist. When we focus on faults and grievances, we hold others captive to their mistakes. But forgiveness releases both the offender and the offended. Paul reminds us that since we’ve received abundant grace from God, we must extend it to others , even when it's hard.
11. Examine Yourself First: 2 Corinthians 13:5
"Examine yourselves to see whether you are in the faith; test yourselves. Do you not realize that Christ Jesus is in you, unless, of course, you fail the test?"
Paul encourages believers to first look inward before evaluating others. This verse highlights the importance of spiritual self-assessment. Rather than spending our energy criticizing others, we are called to test our own hearts and ensure our walk with Christ is authentic. When we stay focused on personal growth, judgment fades and grace increases.
12. Love Covers a Multitude of Sins: 1 Peter 4:8
"Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins."
When love is our motive, judgment takes a back seat. This verse reminds us that deep, Christ-like love doesn’t nitpick or shame, it extends patience and grace. Love doesn’t ignore wrongs, but it approaches them in a redemptive and compassionate way. If we truly love others as God loves us, we’ll be slow to judge and quick to forgive.
13. Let No One Boast: 1 Corinthians 4:5
"Therefore judge nothing before the appointed time; wait until the Lord comes. He will bring to light what is hidden in darkness and will expose the motives of the heart. At that time each will receive their praise from God."
We often judge without knowing the full picture. Paul reminds us that only God sees hearts and motives clearly. Our premature judgments can be not only wrong but harmful. This verse encourages patience, humility, and trust that God will ultimately make all things right.
14. Avoid Hypocritical Judgment: Luke 6:37
"Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven."
Jesus once again teaches against a judgmental spirit. The measure we use against others will be used against us. Instead of condemning, Jesus invites us into a life of mercy and forgiveness. Hypocrisy has no place in His kingdom; grace and compassion are its true currency.
15. Be Humble in Spirit: Proverbs 11:2
"When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom."
A judgmental heart often stems from pride. When we elevate ourselves, we are more likely to look down on others. Proverbs reminds us that true wisdom is found in humility, not arrogance. When we embrace humility, we create space for understanding, not accusation.
16. Don't Be Quick to Speak: Proverbs 18:13
"To answer before listening, that is folly and shame."
Being judgmental often comes from reacting without fully understanding the situation. Proverbs warns us against jumping to conclusions. Taking time to listen first not only prevents misjudgments but also shows respect and care. A patient listener reflects God’s heart more than a quick critic.
17. Be Quick to Listen, Slow to Speak: James 1:19
"My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry."
James offers timeless wisdom that directly confronts a judgmental attitude. Often, we judge out of frustration or misunderstanding. By practicing active listening and holding our tongues, we create room for empathy and reconciliation. This verse invites us into the posture of humility and peace.
18. The Golden Rule: Matthew 7:12
"So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets."
Known as the Golden Rule, this commandment teaches us to treat others with the same grace and understanding we hope to receive. If we don’t want to be harshly judged or unfairly criticized, we shouldn’t do that to others. Living by this principle eliminates judgmental behavior and fosters mutual respect.
19. Don't Think More Highly of Yourself: Romans 12:3
"For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment…"
Paul addresses a key cause of judgment, pride. When we think too highly of ourselves, we naturally look down on others. This verse invites us to a sober, realistic view of ourselves that’s grounded in grace. It encourages us to remain humble and resist the temptation to elevate ourselves over others.
20. Treat Others with Gentleness: 2 Timothy 2:24-25
"And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful. Opponents must be gently instructed…"
When disagreements arise, the response of a godly person isn’t harsh judgment but gentle instruction. Paul encourages kindness even in correction. The goal is not to defeat others, but to win them over with love and truth. This is a powerful reminder to respond with softness rather than criticism.
21. Let Peace Rule Your Heart: Colossians 3:15
"Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful."
A peaceful heart is incompatible with a judgmental spirit. When Christ’s peace rules in us, we become peacemakers rather than critics. Paul urges the church to live in harmony, rooted in gratitude. When we choose peace, we reflect God’s character and resist the urge to be harsh or divisive.
Anne Kostick has been Editor-in-Chief since September 2007. Previously, Anne was a principal at Foxpath IND, a publishing, consulting and editorial services company specializing in the transition to and from traditional content publishing and online content management, development and publishing. Her clients included trade book publishers, technology and financial services Web sites, and arts and cultural institutions. Previously, she worked as Licensing and Product Development Director, Senior Acquisitions Editor and Director of Electronic Publishing for Workman Publishing, and as Senior Acquisitions Editor for Harry N. Abrams/Stewart, Tabori & Chang. In the online world she worked as Director of Content Development for Vitaminshoppe.com. Anne has a B.A. in Greek and Latin, with a minor in Theater, from Beloit College. She is the author of several books for children, as well as a definitive collection of jokes.