Is the ‘Infidelity Epidemic’ Hard-Wired in Our Genes?
by
findingDulcinea Staff
Spitzer and Paterson’s confessions prompted a rush of articles about unfaithfulness and modern life. Science has chewed over the issue for years.
30-Second Summary
This year has seen USA Today and Britain’s Daily Telegraph ask whether their nations are in the throes of, as the latter put it, an “infidelity epidemic.”
However, according to evolutionary psychologist David Barash infidelity is as old as the hills. “Before the homogenization of cultures that resulted from Western colonialism,” he wrote in the Los Angeles Times, “more than 85 percent of human societies unabashedly favored polygamy.”
In his estimation, there is no epidemic. Modern Westerners, such as Gov. David Paterson, are now simply more willing to discuss their indiscretions.
Evolutionary psychology also predicts that men will be more promiscuous than women. A man can father, theoretically, hundreds of children, whereas the most fertile woman could feasibly have perhaps 20 children in her life. So, men are driven by their genes to reproduce indiscriminately.
Evidence supporting that theory was presented in a 2003 survey conducted among more than 16,000 people across several countries, as reported in the Washington Times.
More than a quarter of heterosexual male respondents said they wanted more than one partner in the next month, compared to just 4.4 percent of women.
Oho State University psychologist Terri Fischer told the Washington Times that teaching those results had its dangers: “I bet a lot of males might leave class and talk to their girlfriends and say, 'You know what I learned in class? It's natural I don't want to commit to you and that I feel attracted to other women—it's because I am a man.’”
But evolutionary psychologists agree that being predisposed to behave in a certain way doesn’t excuse that behavior or make it inevitable.
More important than mankind’s genetic predispositions may be our changing society. The Daily Telegraph writes that, in a digital age, "having an affair has never been easier."
However, according to evolutionary psychologist David Barash infidelity is as old as the hills. “Before the homogenization of cultures that resulted from Western colonialism,” he wrote in the Los Angeles Times, “more than 85 percent of human societies unabashedly favored polygamy.”
In his estimation, there is no epidemic. Modern Westerners, such as Gov. David Paterson, are now simply more willing to discuss their indiscretions.
Evolutionary psychology also predicts that men will be more promiscuous than women. A man can father, theoretically, hundreds of children, whereas the most fertile woman could feasibly have perhaps 20 children in her life. So, men are driven by their genes to reproduce indiscriminately.
Evidence supporting that theory was presented in a 2003 survey conducted among more than 16,000 people across several countries, as reported in the Washington Times.
More than a quarter of heterosexual male respondents said they wanted more than one partner in the next month, compared to just 4.4 percent of women.
Oho State University psychologist Terri Fischer told the Washington Times that teaching those results had its dangers: “I bet a lot of males might leave class and talk to their girlfriends and say, 'You know what I learned in class? It's natural I don't want to commit to you and that I feel attracted to other women—it's because I am a man.’”
But evolutionary psychologists agree that being predisposed to behave in a certain way doesn’t excuse that behavior or make it inevitable.
More important than mankind’s genetic predispositions may be our changing society. The Daily Telegraph writes that, in a digital age, "having an affair has never been easier."
Headline Link: ‘Desperately Seeking Someone’
U.K. paper The Daily Telegraph claims that the United Kingdom is suffering from an "infidelity epidemic." As the average life expectancy increases, chances are that couples will get bored with each other. In many instances, people who choose to have an affair see nothing wrong with their decision, and some contend that having a sexual relationship with someone other than a spouse can make a loveless marriage more bearable.
Source: The Telegraph
A USA Today/Gallup Poll of 1,025 adults nationwide found that the percentage of Americans today who know someone with an unfaithful spouse is 54 percent, up from 24 percent in 1964. David Barash, an evolutionary biologist at the University of Washington, stated that he believed "there has not been a change in the actual behavior of people, but there has been a change in the inclination of people to discuss it." However, he also suggested that there may be an "evolutionary human tendency toward multiple partners," according to USA Today.
Source: USA Today
Analysis: Researching Infidelity
The Washington Times, in an article republished on Vedantam.com, covered a 2003 survey on sexual behavior that appeared in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology. The survey “involved 16,288 volunteers from 50 countries in the Americas, Europe, Africa and Asia, as well as Australia. Asked how many partners they desired over the next month, men on average said 1.87, while women said 0.78. Men said that over the next 10 years they wanted 5.95 partners, while women said they wanted 2.17.”
Source: Vedantam.com
In 2004, Professor Tim Spector of St. Thomas' Hospital in London claimed there is a genetic connection to infidelity. His study focused on women, and found that in the case of twins, one twin was 55 percent more likely to have an affair if her sister did. The tendency was even stronger in identical twins (who share identical genetic material). Spector didn't pinpoint a specific infidelity gene, but said "a number of genes working together" could be a contributing factor, along with social influences.
Source: The BBC
Responding to the Spitzer scandal, Barash wrote in the Los Angeles Times that social monogamy for the purpose of child rearing is far more common than sexual monogamy among animals. According to Barash, there is probably only one animal that is truly monogamous: a parasitic worm that lives in the intestines of fish. The male and female worms pair up as adolescents and their bodies literally fuse together. They are "sexually faithful until death does not them part."
Source: Los Angeles Times
Scientists identified a hormone in voles that encourages monogamous behavior. By implanting a gene for the appropriate hormone receptor, researchers transformed the promiscuous meadow vole, which will mate with several females and care for none of their children, into a model of domesticity and good parenting. The treated male stuck close to its partner and cared for the children.
Source: ABC.net.au
Background : Eliot Spitzer and David Paterson
With his wife Silda beside him, New York Gov. Eliot Spitzer recently announced his resignation from office following his involvement in a prostitution ring. An FBI wiretap recorded a person arranging a liaison with a prostitution ring last month in a Washington, D.C. hotel. The transcript of the conversation formed part of the complaint in a federal indictment of four members of the prostitution ring. Several media reports that the client was Eliot Spitzer were soon confirmed.
Source: findingDulcinea
FindingDulcinea examines why Spitzer was so careless with his actions and whether he may have wanted to get caught.
Source: findingDulcinea
Hours after he was sworn in as New York's new governor, David Paterson admitted that both he and his wife had extramarital affairs. Paterson's admission, however, didn't draw the same ire as Gov. Spitzer's. Paterson said he made the disclosure early to quell rumors and avoid blackmail or speculation about his time in office.
Source: Binghamton Press & Sun-Bulletin
Silda Spitzer, like the wives of many wayward politicians, stood stoically beside her shamed husband. Political experts say that wronged political wives often face pressure to show support for their husbands, because presenting a united front in the midst of scandal has become the norm.
Source: findingDulcinea
Related Topic: Selfish genes and unselfish behavior
A May 2007 article that originally appeared in the Washington Post reports on scientific research that suggests human beings are inherently predisposed to behave selflessly. “Altruism, the experiment suggested, was not a superior moral faculty that suppresses basic selfish urges but rather was basic to the brain, hard-wired and pleasurable.”
Source: RichardDawkins.net







